Cheater Cheater

Here lately it seems like the world is obsessed with love- find it, being in it, or getting over it. But are people jumping into relationships just to be a part of something? To feel like they are loved? That answer is pretty obvious to me- HELL YES. Maybe its because the months of November through February are the single persons nightmare.

So people find themselves in these relationships that don't make them happy. Some stick it out, some break it off, and some are so unhappy they cheat until they're caught. If you are genuinely happy in your relationship and the way things are panning out for you and your partner then you wouldn't feel the need for some sweet release such as cheating.

I'm sure you can think of multiple people who have been cheated on or have cheated on someone. That person might even be you. It seems like it happens all the time. What goes through people's minds to think such activity is ok? What makes people think they are so sneaky that they can get away with it. News flash cheaters... someone will find out. At that point, if you are the cheater you should make a run for it. Let me tell you, if anything happened like that to one of my girls I can promise you a parade of angry pitch fork holding hormone enraged women would come to take care of business.

So lets talk about the different kinds of cheaters

The "it's just flirting" cheater-  texting is harmless in most cases. However it is the content of such texts that make you a cheater even if there is no actual physical contact. Any sexual conversation that is exchanged makes you one step closer to making the physical mistake. And FYI: sending snapchats of you, your body, or your package is not ok. .. And unless you look like Ryan Gosling or James Franco- just don't. You're embarrassing yourself. Oh and keep in mind, if you have to delete messages so your girlfriend or boyfriend won't see it then you know you're doing something wrong.

The "ex" cheater- now this is a two part category. First, the cheater who has a past of cheating. Oh come on, we have all heard it before, once a cheater- always a cheater. Sure giving people he benefit of the doubt is awesome and more power to those people who don't have trust issues. But it makes me so sad for my girl Kelly Clarkson. Her recent engagement is to a man who got a divorce from his previous wife for his actions of infidelity. Tragic. It's hard to be happy for a girl who is essentially signing her life away to a man with a nasty past.
The second part of this category is a person who cheats on his or her partner with their ex. Everyone wants to think of themselves as an upgrade. How crappy is that that your being cheated on by a person you trust and love with someone they talk shit about? Low blow, y'all.

The "it didn't mean anything" cheater- just shut up, you're an idiot.

The married man- really? Do vows mean nothing? Does the unity of two people becoming one in the name of a higher power mean nothing? This one hits home. Marriage is something we all dream of. We dream to live happily ever after with white picket fences and children playing with puppies until its time to sit down as a family and eat dinner together. Yeah.... That's rare. Men, how many times do you plan to get on one knee? Women, how many times do you plan to teach your children who daddy is? If you're married, especially if you have children, and you feel the need to cheat.. I just can't handle you. You should reevaluate your life.

What makes cheaters think they are so desirable? What makes them think they deserve more than hat they already have? And why the hell do they think its ok to put someone through that? Just break up with them. Not to mention, there is a ton of slores in world. You having relations with other people and bringing it back to the bedroom with your partner is unthoughtful, dangerous, and disgusting. Which inevitably makes you disgusting, cheater.


Until next time,
KND